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Growth Over Grit — Why Grinding Isn’t the Goal

May 14, 20252 min read

Growth Over Grit — Why Grinding Isn’t the Goal

Introduction:There’s a difference between resilience and self-destruction. Too many leaders wear burnout like a badge of honor, thinking grit alone will carry them through. But grit without growth is just glorified suffering. If you’re not learning while you grind, you’re just spinning your wheels. Grit can get you started—but growth gets you further.

Why Leaders Burn OutLeaders burn out when they confuse movement with momentum. They confuse working harder with working smarter. And they confuse being busy with being effective. Grit becomes a crutch when it's used to compensate for lack of clarity, direction, or alignment. Eventually, you hit a wall—and without growth, there’s no ladder over it.

Reframe the Grind:

Grit is a tool, not a lifestyle. You use it when needed—but you don’t live in it 24/7.

Rest isn’t weakness—it’s part of readiness. You can’t pour from an empty tank.

Growth happens in reflection, not just repetition. Without stepping back, you can’t step up.

Growth Moves:

Block out 30 minutes every week to reflect, review, and re-align. Call it your "combat debrief."

Write down one thing you’ve learned from failure every week.

Schedule learning with the same intensity you schedule work—books, coaching, training, and feedback.

Real Talk:

Grinding looks good on social media. But it’s not leadership—it’s survival mode. Growth is about building something that lasts. Growth is about playing the long game, not the hustle game. You didn’t come this far to burn out in the name of ego or overwork.

Conclusion:Leaders don’t just power through. They pivot, they pause, and they pursue growth over grind. If you want to build something sustainable, you need to learn how to grow smarter, not suffer louder.

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JJ Hardy

JJ Hardy is a seasoned leader, entrepreneur, and retired US Army veteran with over 18 years of dedicated service. Through a journey marked by overcoming adversity and forging resilience, JJ has developed a passion for empowering others to rise above their challenges and thrive. As the founder of Victory Leadership Coaching, JJ specializes in leadership development, resilience coaching, and mental health advocacy, helping individuals and organizations unlock their potential and build strong, cohesive teams. His dynamic approach combines military discipline with compassionate leadership, guiding others to become warrior leaders who can navigate the pressures of both personal and professional life. With a focus on emotional intelligence, self-mastery, and servant leadership, JJ is committed to helping others lead with strength, purpose, and heart.

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